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5 Tips for Toilet Learning

Posted October 16, 2009

Tip #1 Expect your child to be able to use the potty reliably (independently) by age 3.5 years. Research shows this age is the new "normal."

Tip #2 Be respectful of the fact that this is your child's body (not yours) and kids this age need time to become comfortable with new skills and expectations.

Tip #3 Remember how young children learn best: by watching you, not by being taught or "trained."

Tip #4 Resist reading parenting books on this subject - each one gives different advice. Instead, buy a few potty books for your child and read them frequently (with no strings attached!)

Tip #5 Be aware that most children show a spike of temporary interest around 19-21 months - which will quickly be replaced by other interests and should not be taken as a sign of "readiness."

To learn more join me for Toilet Learning the Easy Way. Tuesday, January 26, 7-9 PM

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In parenting, how you say it really counts

Posted September 22, 2009

"Oops, it looks like you forgot the no hurting rule."

"If you throw sand again, we will go home."

"You have a very smart body. Your body knows when to pee and when to go poo and it always feels better after that."

"Here we are at preschool. What do you need to remember today." (no pushing/no grabbing)

"It's OK if you need to cry because crying will actually help you fall asleep faster.

"It can be hard going to bed but your smart body knows when it's tired. I love you and I'll see you in the morning."

"It looks like you aren't hungry right now. I'll put your plate away and you can let me know if you want it back a little later."

"It's cold outside today. Do you want to wear your jacket or have it in the bag? It's your choice."

"I know! Sometimes our hands just don't want to share. But you are in charge of your hands, so you can help them remember."

"It's time to go inside. Do you want to walk or shall I carry you?"

"Every day it will get easier for you to remember that rule."

"I know it's hard to go to bed wometimes but your smart body knows when it is tired. I love you and I'll see you in the morning."

"It's really important for the door to stay closed (locked) all night long in order to keep you safe. I'll open it at breakfast time."

"It's OK to cry because crying will actually help you fall asleep sooner.

" You are doing a really good job."

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