In Parenting, It's How You Say It That Counts.

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In Parenting, It’s How You Say It That Counts.

Posted October 21, 2011

"Oops, it looks like you forgot the no hurting rule."

"You have a very smart body. Your body knows when to pee and when to go poo and it always feels better after that."

"Here we are at preschool. What do you need to remember today." (no pushing/no grabbing)

"If you throw sand again, we will go home."

"It can be hard going to bed but your smart body knows when it's tired. I love you and I'll see you in the morning."

"It looks like you aren't hungry right now. I'll put your plate away and you can let me know if you want it back a little later."

"It's cold outside today. Do you want to wear your jacket or have it in the bag? It's your choice."

"I know! Sometimes our hands just don't want to share. But you are in charge of your hands, so you can help them remember."

"It's time to go inside. Do you want to walk or shall I carry you?"

"Every day it will get easier for you to remember that rule."

"It's really important for the door to stay closed (locked) all night long in order to keep you safe. I'll open it at breakfast time."

"It's OK to cry because crying will actually help you fall asleep sooner.

" You are doing a really good job."

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I still say to both of my girls, it’s time for (bed/bath/teeth brushing) and when I meet with resistance, I say exactly what I recall Kitty advising “do you want to walk up the stairs, or shall I carry you” - imagine, carrying a 55lb 8 year old up a full flight of stairs!! And on the odd occasion, I still have to do it

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